Disclaimer : Raw Language used
Well the title already made you judge me?! I understand , people can take frustrated women and independent women but the three words together don't go that well.
You might have drawn some conclusions already:
I have a boyfriend.
I booze.
I have more male friends.
I use bad language.
I am a bitch.
Some of them are true and some aren't. Unfortunately you won't know what is true. Now what?!
It's not that women are emotionless, infact they are more sensitive and fragile but when she speaks more she is taken as a bitch and when not she is an egoist or in other ways she attracts men else is narrow minded.
There is so much of development and technology that we have access to today, our education system changed our advances with people changed. We are more open to foreign cultures, not just accepting them but also practicing them.
But is this really true?
Then why do we still hesitate to accept the choices of women?
Parents bhi alag level pe hote hein.
Bolte hein " Ja simran jeele apni zindagi, par 8.30pm tak ghar aajana. "
Seriously?! Is that freedom?!
Aur ek dialogue maarte hein
I shouldn't marry because society feels it's right time or relatives question the family. I should and will marry only when I feel I need to, where in both of us are confident enough that we can settle together and not that I ask him money for everything.
I understand that all of us are made different biologically, but this difference should not be used to discriminate among similar tasks. Kudos to all people out there who are working in sectors that are not expected by them to work and breaking stereotypes.
Note : This is not a gender sensitive opinion. I'm not trying to point out that men only mistreat women. It's gender centric and I show huge respect to all those people especially MEN who appreciate women and put their choices to priority.
Well the title already made you judge me?! I understand , people can take frustrated women and independent women but the three words together don't go that well.
You might have drawn some conclusions already:
I have a boyfriend.
I booze.
I have more male friends.
I use bad language.
I am a bitch.
Some of them are true and some aren't. Unfortunately you won't know what is true. Now what?!
It's not that women are emotionless, infact they are more sensitive and fragile but when she speaks more she is taken as a bitch and when not she is an egoist or in other ways she attracts men else is narrow minded.
There is so much of development and technology that we have access to today, our education system changed our advances with people changed. We are more open to foreign cultures, not just accepting them but also practicing them.
But is this really true?
Then why do we still hesitate to accept the choices of women?
Parents bhi alag level pe hote hein.
Bolte hein " Ja simran jeele apni zindagi, par 8.30pm tak ghar aajana. "
Seriously?! Is that freedom?!
Aur ek dialogue maarte hein
" I believe you par society aachi nahi hein. "
By mistake agar boyfriend ho tho khatam.
" Baby I trust you but what was that xyz doing with you last evening!?"
My ideal response
" Dear stupid, i work and stay in an environment where i have to be around guys and yes we hangout as well. Iska matlab ye nahi hota ki mein terko cheat kar rahi hu. When I commit for you, I am in."
Par ye usse samaj mein aatha tab na.
Friends are no less. Kyu kaam kar rahi ho? Why work so hard when you will eventually marry?! Why compromise your personal life?
Dude! If i was just to marry then why the hell did i pass all the exams, work so hard to score well in boards.
Friends are no less. Kyu kaam kar rahi ho? Why work so hard when you will eventually marry?! Why compromise your personal life?
Dude! If i was just to marry then why the hell did i pass all the exams, work so hard to score well in boards.
I shouldn't marry because society feels it's right time or relatives question the family. I should and will marry only when I feel I need to, where in both of us are confident enough that we can settle together and not that I ask him money for everything.
I understand that all of us are made different biologically, but this difference should not be used to discriminate among similar tasks. Kudos to all people out there who are working in sectors that are not expected by them to work and breaking stereotypes.
Note : This is not a gender sensitive opinion. I'm not trying to point out that men only mistreat women. It's gender centric and I show huge respect to all those people especially MEN who appreciate women and put their choices to priority.
Written by -
G.Rakshitha
